Our community promise
Community guidelines
Short version: be a decent person, and don't make anyone feel bad about their body. Longer version below. Breaking these gets you removed — we'd rather have a smaller community than a hostile one.
1. No fatphobia. Ever.
No unsolicited comments on anyone's body. No 'you'd be gorgeous if…'. No concern-trolling about health. No 'brave of you to post this'. This is the entire reason this app exists and it is the line we enforce hardest.
2. Attraction, not fetishisation
Being genuinely attracted to plus-size people is welcome — it's why many members are here. Treating someone as a body type instead of a person is not. If your opening message is about her size rather than anything she wrote, you're doing it wrong.
3. Be who you say you are
Real, recent photos of yourself. Your real age. If you're partnered and looking, say so up front. Catfishing gets you removed permanently.
4. No harassment
If someone stops replying, that's an answer. Repeated messages after being asked to stop, slurs, threats, and pressure of any kind result in removal.
5. Nothing explicit unsolicited
No nudity in profile photos. No sexual messages before it's clearly mutual and welcome. This is enforced regardless of who you are.
6. 18+ only
Everyone here must be 18 or older. Reporting a suspected minor is the single most important report you can file and we action it immediately.
7. No soliciting
No sex work advertising, no MLM pitches, no crypto, no promoting your OnlyFans, no 'send me money' in any form.